My Journey

Years ago, when I was working as a security manager, I sat down for a one-to-one with a member of my team. Within the first minute she told me she had just been diagnosed with cancer. My heart sank. In that same moment something deeper rose up in me, a sense that I was meant to be there with her, to help in whatever way I could.

For the next hour we spoke about what she was facing. I shared everything I had learned, pointed her towards voices that might guide her, and offered a new perspective: that this illness was not her identity. It was something her body was carrying, not who she was. If it had been created, it could also be overcome.

Months later, after her treatment, she returned to work. I had since moved to another role, yet she reached out with a message that I will never forget. She thanked me for giving her confidence and belief at the moment she needed it most. She told me she was in remission and ready to step forward with new energy. I encouraged her to take the leap into leadership herself, and she went on to apply for a manager’s role.

That moment changed me as much as it changed her. It showed me that a single honest conversation can change the trajectory of a life.

Why I’m Here

That experience planted the seed for everything that has followed. My own journey has been filled with challenges — family conflict, financial strain, and the search for identity — and each of them has taught me that real transformation comes from the inside. It comes from the philosophy we choose to live by.

This is what became Inceptivism, my personal philosophy and now the foundation of my work. Awareness, choice, and growth are not just ideas. They are the daily practices that carried me through, and they are what I now share with others.

I am here on Awakenpedia to connect, to share this philosophy, and to learn from others who are also walking their path. My hope is that my story offers both truth and encouragement — that no matter where you begin, you can always choose again.