• Katia Costa posted an update

      3 weeks ago

      When your vibe speaks fluent… silence 😌✨

      You ever try to explain what you’re feeling and end up sounding like a Wi-Fi signal with trust issues?
      “Yeah so basically I feel… like… not sad, not happy, more like… 🌊✨🧘🏽‍♀️ but also 🔥… you know?”
      They don’t know.

      At some point in the spiritual journey, your emotions stop being sentences and turn into abstract art.
      You’re out here feeling like a whole orchestra, and people are asking you to hum a single note.
      “How are you?” “Honestly… I’m vibrating.”

      Now you’re the weird one.
      You start conversations with: “I can’t explain it, but I can feel it.”
      Which is code for: “My soul just upgraded its software and I didn’t get the manual.”

      Meanwhile, your friends are still using emotional vocabulary like: Happy. Sad. Angry.
      And you’re over here like: “I feel like a gentle cosmic expansion with a hint of ancestral release.”
      Blank stares. Every time.

      But let’s be honest…It’s not that you can’t explain it.
      It’s that explaining sunlight to someone who’s indoors feels like a part-time job with no salary.

      So now you just smile, sip your tea, and let your energy do the talking.
      Because if they can feel it, they’ll get it.
      And if they can’t… well…
      You’ll just nod mysteriously and say, “It’s a frequency thing.” 😌✨

      Heart
      Victoria
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      • I resonate with this post a great deal; particularly as of late! I have noticed, as recently as this week, that certain loved ones no longer know how and/or want to connect with me.

        One of the most important people in the world to me, a blood relative, did not speak to me for the first time in decades last weekend. She could barely look at me.

        I have shared much of my life with this person, a doctor, but because she is so sure that there is no Source, no Spirit, no afterlife, no energy healing, etc. that she has no respect for me whatsoever. I never spoke with her about my spiritual journey but she knows, and that’s okay with me.

        I wouldn’t go back to a life without connection for anything in the world, but my life outside the spiritual community is much “smaller” now. At least, there are fewer people in my life outside the spiritual community.

        But my life is far more joyful, meaningful and authentic today than I ever imagined possible, and I have Spirit to thank that!✨

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        • Dear soul sis @Tori,
          Your words carry both tenderness and truth… and that combination is never small, even if the circle around you feels like it is.

          When we shift internally, it’s like we’ve quietly changed the “frequency” we’re living on. And those who once danced easily beside us may suddenly feel out of rhythm, unsure of the steps, or even uncomfortable with the music they can’t hear.

          What you’re experiencing with your loved one hurts, especially because of the shared history. That kind of silence isn’t empty, it’s heavy. But it doesn’t necessarily mean the love is gone. Sometimes it simply means that two worlds, for now, don’t know how to overlap without friction.

          You’ve chosen a path of connection, meaning, and inner truth. That often asks us to release the expectation that everyone we love will understand or walk it with us. Not because they don’t care, but because their lens of reality is built differently.

          And yet, here’s the quiet magic in what you shared: your life didn’t shrink… it refined. Like a garden that was once wild and crowded, now intentionally tended. Fewer plants, yes, but each one rooted, alive, and nourished.

          It’s okay to grieve the distance. It’s also okay to honor the expansion you’ve found.

          💗And who knows… sometimes, over time, even the most skeptical hearts soften, not through debate or explanation, but through witnessing someone living with genuine joy, peace, and authenticity. That kind of evidence speaks in a language beyond belief systems.💗

          You didn’t lose your world… you stepped into one that finally fits your soul. Be pround of yourself!
          🌈Keep walking in your truth. Keep letting your light do what it does best, quietly illuminating, gently transforming, without needing permission.
          🌈Trust the unfolding. Life is always rearranging itself in ways we can’t yet see… and it has a beautiful habit of surprising those who stay open.

          And never forget: the light you’re living doesn’t need words to travel.

          It reaches hearts in its own sacred language ✨

          I feel your awesome soul. I deeply appreciate you. And the light in me celebrates the light in you.
          Sending you so much love 💕

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          • @Katia Thank you for this beautiful and enlightened response.✨ Your words touched me deeply and I am grateful for you, and for your profound and elevated insights, Katia. Namaste.🙏
            Yes, the silence is very heavy but I don’t feel loss or separation.
            I feel Light, The Light, and that has not only changed me, profoundly, but the lives and so-called “roles” of those around me as well. And such roles are no longer applicable or even relevant in the way they once were.
            The music has changed. The choreography is new. And the drama that once allowed for/encouraged past familiar characters /loved ones to act, has evolved into something far more elusive and powerful. And quiet.
            Thank you for taking the time and energy to help me, Katia; I’m deeply grateful that you responded to my post!🙏
            Namaste, my beautiful soul sis.♥️

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