The song goes, “I wanna know what love is…” Gorgeous, poetic, goosebumps.
And then comes the tragic plot twist: “I want you to show me.”
Boom.. magic gone. Instantly. Because… show me? Really? 😁

How is anyone supposed to demonstrate something that only exists inside each of us?
The best the poor partner can do is put on a great perfume and pray their scent aligns with your inner love-frequency.

By the way, what love are we even talking about?
It’s like walking into a tiny Chinese shop looking for “authentic originals.”
Love has become a label slapped onto every convenience and emotion we can’t explain, and none of those things are actually love.

⁉️ “I wanna know what love is”
Spoiler: most of us aren’t looking only for “love.”
We’re looking for a whole combo meal of human needs with fries on the side. For example…

• Companionship – someone to send memes to at 2 AM without being judged.

• Validation – that magical “wow, you noticed me? excellent choice” sensation.

• Security – emotional, financial, or the safety of knowing there’s a second human who can kill spiders.

• Social conditioning – because apparently the world thinks we should have a ring, a mortgage, and 2.5 children by Tuesday.

• Healing old wounds – hoping someone will finally offer the love you didn’t get in Season 1 of your life.

• Avoiding loneliness – confusing “single” with “Wi-Fi offline.”

• Status & image – wanting to look like you’ve got your life together because you’re with someone.

• Purpose & direction – believing love is the GPS your life has been missing.

• Sexual fulfillment – hugs, kisses, cuddles, and a strategically warm human pillow.

• Support system – someone who does n’t run away when your life’s plot twist comes.

• Adventure & novelty – passion, spontaneity, and “let’s do something slightly irresponsible.”

• Co-creation – building a family, a home, or a Pinterest-worthy vision board together.

☯️ Here’s the million-dollar question: 👉 If you could feel completely whole right now – healthy, wealthy, peaceful, joyful, self-luminous – would you still feel you desperately need a partner?

Depending on someone for emotional, spiritual, or financial comfort can feel sweet at first.
Like finally being “taken care of.” But what’s the hidden price tag?
When our sense of safety lives in someone else’s pocket, our nervous system goes into survival mode. Suddenly everything becomes a potential threat.
We cling. We shrink. We twist ourselves like a pretzel just to keep the peace.
The relationship stops being love and starts being… a negotiation for safety.

💥People change. They evolve, detour, retreat, or sometimes exit the chat completely.
If our wholeness is outsourced to them, every move they make feels risky.
That pressure crushes us and the relationship.

Real love isn’t dependency. Having a partner is good to have, never a must have.
We’re our own best partners when we finally learn how to love ourselves.
That’s the main delicious meal » full nutrition, soul-fuel, all the vitamins.
Everything else? Just dessert options. Tasty, fun, but not required for survival or happiness.
And when this clicks, my friend… you step right into the place where magic and freedom have been waiting for you. ✨

Meditation to Open Your Heart and Attract Love:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt7KHTXip-c