• Katia Costa posted an update

      5 weeks ago

      Accept people as they are, but place people where they belong.

      Acceptance is often mistaken for unlimited access. But wisdom knows the difference.

      Accepting people as they are means releasing the urge to fix, save, or edit them.
      It is seeing clearly, without denial or fantasy. It is compassion without conditions.

      Placing people where they belong is discernment.
      It is understanding that not everyone is meant for the front row of your life, your energy, your rituals, or your inner temple.
      Some are teachers. Some are mirrors. Some are visitors. Some are lessons that do not need a season pass.

      This is not rejection. It is energetic hygiene.

      Boundaries are not walls built from fear. They are altars built from self respect.
      They protect what is sacred, including your time, your nervous system, and your capacity to love without resentment.

      You can honor someone’s soul and still choose distance.
      You can wish someone well and still not invite them into your daily orbit.
      You can forgive and still say no.

      Spiritual maturity looks like kindness with clarity. Love with limits. Openness guided by wisdom.

      May we keep our hearts open and our circles intentional. ✨

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      Corina ( Arashaya) Todoran and Victoria
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