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      Katia Costa posted an update

      3 months ago

      🌈✨ Checking point: Are we still hunting for external validation?

      Let’s have a little spiritual truth tea. Not heavy — just real talk with a wink 💁‍♀️💫

      💃 Are you moving through life like you’re on Broadway?

      Quoting other people’s wisdom, doing what your grandma, school, or society says is “right,” even thinking thoughts that aren’t even yours?

      Meanwhile, your soul is backstage like:🎭 “Umm… hello? Can I get a mic here?!”

      🧠 Are you twisting your truth into a pretzel, shoving your real feelings into a tiny drawer labeled “later,” just to fit some made-up mold?

      Spoiler alert: the mold is broken. You were never meant to fit in it anyway.

      💼 Are you pouring your energy into a job that pays your bills but starves your soul, just so people will say “wow, you’re successful”?

      (But deep down you’re Googling “how to run away and live in a forest” every Monday.)

      👯‍♀️ Are you hanging out with energy vampires, laughing at jokes you don’t find funny, nodding through conversations that make your third eye roll — just so you don’t have to be alone with your amazing self?

      🛍️ Buying things you don’t care about to impress people you don’t even like?

      (Credit card says ouch, soul says meh.)

      🤣 Smiling when your soul just wants to go full potato mode?

      Yup. We’ve all been there. “I’m fine.” = Famous last words of the spiritually disconnected.

      📸 And what about social media — are you posting just to collect those dopamine hits from likes, hearts, and emoji replies?

      📎 Why are we flooding the feed with empty picture posts, no words, no insight, no vibe?

      Just copy-paste, drop, and ghost. That’s not expression — that’s decoration.

      ✨ Empty interaction is like throwing glitter into the wind and calling it connection.

      Pretty. But meaningless.

      🌬️ If this is you — just pause.

      Not to feel bad. Not to spiral. Just to breathe.

      Because here’s the truth, gorgeous soul:

      🌟 Validation that doesn’t come from within is never enough.

      You’ll keep chasing more: more likes, more claps, more approval cookies.

      But they won’t fill the void. Only YOU can do that.

      Your real self?🎤 Doesn’t need applause.🧘‍♀️ Just needs to be seen by YOU.

      To be free. To speak. To rest. To dance weirdly. To cry at sunsets. To just exist — wildly, truthfully, unapologetically.

      So…

      💭 Who are you performing for?

      💭 What are you trying to prove?

      💭 And what would happen if you just dropped the act… and let your real you shine?

      You might find that the version of you without the mask is the most magnetic, radiant, and powerful of all.

      🌀 You don’t need to be louder. You need to be truer.

      💖 You don’t need more likes. You need more love — from you.

      Let’s stop scrolling for value and start diving inward for truth.

      You’re already enough. Always were.

      Heart
      Victoria
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