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Katia Costa posted an update
6 weeks ago (edited)
There is no excuse: Choose yourself
Watch the video.
I’m sure you will get much insights.
Victoria2 Comments-
Oh Katia, this video could not resonate with me more right now. Once again, your timing is perfect and I thank you for taking the time to post this (exceptional) video; I always appreciate Aaron’s videos and this one helped me most of all, at least thus far!🙏
I have been choosing myself and relationships have ended as a result of it. My feelings about what the word “family” means has changed dramatically over the years (and recently) but I think it’s inevitable once we reach a certain place in our spiritual growth. It’s happened in stages for me.
Of course, we all manage the intricacies of relationships differently, but I have seen and experienced a lot of shifts in once-important relationships, and realize now that I wasn’t the person I was before this spiritual journey, and the shifts keep happening the deeper I go on this path.
I wouldn’t trade my life today for anything, and my support system is very small but powerful!!
Thank you again, Katia!!🙏♥️👑
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@Tori We are together in this, dear soul sis. 🤍
I’ve been watching my relationship world slowly disintegrate.
Not because I became a terrible person, because I started choosing myself.
And retiring from my position as Chief People-Pleaser & Emotional Customer Service Representative.
And apparently… some people did NOT like the new management.
People who loved the version of me who adapted, accommodated, swallowed her truth and kept everyone happy suddenly discovered that I had needs, opinions and a voice.
Some relationships fell apart. Some true colors appeared. Some intentions became painfully clear.
And yes, it hurts.
Because I’ve had to face something uncomfortable too: I was the clown in some people’s circus. 🤡
How much of my life, energy and time did I give away trying to be helpful, respected, seen, loved, accepted?
But I’m learning not to shame that woman.
We need to forgive ourselves for the years we spent abandoning ourselves.
She was doing the best she knew how.
And now she knows better.
So, dear soul sis, if your world is rearranging because you’re finally choosing yourself… Breathe. Let it rearrange.You´re not loosing relationships as they may never be true sharing ones.
You may be losing the version of yourself who kept abandoning her own truth to keep everyone else comfortable.
And that is a very different kind of loss. A very good one.
Much love 💕
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