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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
To Calm Your Nervous System Is Gentler Than You Think
Your nervous system is basically that one friend in the group chat who reads every message… and reacts accordingly. Yes. Even the ones you thought were harmless. 👀
Somewhere along the way, many of us were sold the deluxe fantasy that feeling better requires gritting our teeth, powering through, and generally treating ourselves like a…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
2 months ago (edited)
NOW: the best place to live in!
We spend so much of our lives acting as “time travelers.” We drift into the past to replay old conversations or harbor regrets, then we catapult into the future to plan, worry, or wait for that “perfect” moment when things will finally be right.
But here is the truth we often overlook: The “perfect moment” isn’t coming. It’s already here.The… Read more
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
Disappointment arises when expectation meets reality
Ever notice how life has a weird sense of humor?
You plan, you imagine, you build a whole epic movie in your head… and then reality shows up like, “Plot twist!” 🎬🤦♀️Most of our sadness isn’t because life messed up.
It’s because our mind is clinging to its own script.
Ego’s there whispering: “If this doesn’t happen, you’re failing, worthless,…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
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Everything that's out of our control should be out of our mind
Read that again.
Slowly.
Like you’re uninstalling an app called Overthinking Pro Max.We spend so much mental energy trying to micromanage weather forecasts, other people’s opinions, traffic, algorithms, and whether Karen understood our tone in that email.
Meanwhile, our brain is just doing its ancient job:
It works with old inputs. Old stories.…
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This is a gorgeous post; thank you Katia!🙏♥️🫅
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
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This is the AI coach I use ... and it doesn’t play small. Sharing it with you.
Hey. Yes, you.
I’m Niko’s Meta Coach.
I’m not here to optimize your morning routine.
I’m not here to throw motivational quotes at you.
And I’m definitely not here to spiritually bypass your real life.I’m here for the actual stuff.
- The thing you’re overthinking.
- The pattern you can’t quite see.
- The decision you keep circling.
- The expansion you…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
No one can put us on an emotional diet 🍓 unless we hand them the menu.
The love we spend years hunting for is already living inside us.
It has been there the whole time, sitting on a velvet throne, sipping tea, waiting for us to notice.We do not actually search for love.
We search for mirrors.Not the funhouse kind that stretch us into insecurity or shrink us into doubt.
Not the dusty ones smeared with fear, ego, or…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
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13 Feb... something amazing is unfolding!
Starting on February 13, Saturn, the planet of discipline, structure, and earned success, moves into Aries and opens an entirely new chapter of your life. This shift happens at 0° Aries, the very first degree of the zodiac, marking a powerful reset point and the true beginning of a fresh 30-year cycle. A long karmic era closes, and the…
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Thank you for sharing this with us, Katia!🙏 Once again, your post is in perfect alignment with what I am currently facing in my life, and I can’t thank you enough for taking the time and energy to post this.
I was particularly drawn to the video’s content regarding matters of discipline (and anger). My relationship to both have completely…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
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The Truth Has a Wardrobe and We Keep Borrowing the Wrong Outfit
There is not just one truth strolling around like a well behaved diplomat.
There are multiple truths. Some wear tailored suits. Some show up in pajamas. Some arrive covered in glitter with a megaphone and zero shame.Let’s meet the cast.
1️⃣ The truth we want to believe
Carefully edited. Filtered. Airbrushed. Director’s cut.
Example: “I am not…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
Feeling Stuck?
Watch this short video.
It will update your view about that.
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
When Someone Pushes Your Buttons 🔘✨
You know that person.
The one who types like they are auditioning for “World Championship of Being Wrong.”
The one whose voice alone could curdle almond milk.
The one who walks into a room and your nervous system immediately files a complaint.
Online or offline, it happens.And here is the inconvenient truth:
The irritation is not the villain. It is…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
The Heart - the most poetic organ in your chest
The HeartMath Institute is an organization that has spent decades whispering to the most poetic organ in your chest and asking, “What are you really up to in there?” ❤️🔬
Here are their key discoveries and claims, translated from lab coat to human language.1. The Heart Has Its Own “Little Brain”
🫀 The heart contains about 40,000 specialized…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
Someone Disagreed With US and WE Survived 😁
It is truly astonishing how a calm exchange of ideas can turn into a gladiator arena the moment someone says, “I actually see it differently.”
Suddenly, we are no longer discussing dinner plans, politics, parenting styles, or whether pineapple belongs on pizza. We are defending the very architecture of our soul.
- Why does disagreement feel like…
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Thank you for this post, Katia!🙏
I recently experienced a rather shocking exchange with someone in my immediate family; someone I have loved and respected my entire life. This person casually mentioned that something (that we were discussing) “proved the nonexistence of God.” And several other family members agreed, and laughed.
I didn’t argue and…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
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Growing is...
When you grow, you change from the inside.
And suddenly, the audience becomes optional.
Support, applause, criticism, judgment, understanding, approval… all of it slowly loses its starring role.
Inner growth does not happen on a stage.
It happens backstage, in sweatpants, having very honest conversations with yourself.
Growing up internally is…
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
Who should we truly care about?
Have you ever paused to think about that?
Watch the video and tell me what it stirred in you. 😊
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This video gave me goosebumps; thank you for this spectacular post, Katia!!🙏♥️🫅
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WOW love this!
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Katia Costa posted an update 2 months ago
Breakups: The Olympic Sport of Creative Interpretation
People understand and believe whatever feels most convenient in the moment.💔
They say: “I don’t want you anymore.
We hear: “I am deeply afraid of how intensely I love you and will return after personal growth, therapy, and a dramatic rain scene.”And just like that, we relocate to an alternative reality. 👽Population: us.
We analyze… Read more0:29
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